{"id":220,"date":"2014-06-18T07:31:35","date_gmt":"2014-06-18T07:31:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/new.carriebattley.com\/wordpress\/?p=220"},"modified":"2014-06-22T18:17:40","modified_gmt":"2014-06-22T18:17:40","slug":"220","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/?p=220","title":{"rendered":"How does your  feminine weigh up to your masculine?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\">If you\u2019re a guy reading this I bet you\u2019re already dismissing the idea of being in tune with your \u2018feminine\u2019 side, right?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">And women reading this\u2026. You\u2019re wondering if you\u2019re perhaps <em>too much<\/em> in your masculine energy sometimes, right? Because let\u2019s face it, as women we are used to having to display both strength in the workplace and in the home \u2013 making us sometimes feel that we\u2019re left with no option but to be in control\u2026. Sound familiar?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Yet here\u2019s the thing \u2013 In order to have happy and healthy relationships with others and ourselves, we <em>all<\/em> need to have a good balance of both feminine and masculine energy. Be that if you\u2019re straight, gay, male or female.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I often come across very successful women that have wonderful careers, finances and strong minds but find it difficult to meet men of similar qualities and sustain any type of relationship. The key to remember here is that in order to bring the correct balance of energy to the relationship you must allow yourself to show and be in tune more with your own feminine energy. \u00a0Do not restrict its flow.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">This does not mean to exude total vulnerability and become a walkover \u2013 it means to simply display the qualities that a strong\/dominant male lacks within himself on a basic level (because men are naturally more in tune with their masculine side) Therefore that type of man will automatically be drawn toward the soft, sensitive, nurturing energy of a woman.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">When we find often ourselves out of balance in a relationship is when the measure of feminine versus masculine shifts out of harmony.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Let\u2019s take the example again of the woman who is driven, successful and in a lot of ways powerful (be that through beauty\/intelligence or social standing etc). Although she\u2019ll always revert to her femininity on a basic level, the masculine energy that she is exuding in constantly being dominant\/controlling and \u2018the hunter\u2019 begins to overtake the level of the core feminine energy. \u00a0It is a common trait for this kind of a woman to refuse to show vulnerability and open\u00a0 emotion because she is so in control in many areas of her life and views this as weakness.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Therefore when this type of woman meets her ideal man of similar power\/success\/strength and qualities, it is likely that he will at some point begin to question the relationship. This will be because after the initial attraction and meeting of similar personalities &#8211; his core masculine energy\u00a0 will being to <em>feel<\/em> the lack of feminine energy provided to him. His core masculine self will automatically as a result, seek to attract and find the correct balance of feminine energy (its other half) to be able to get the qualities and fulfillment needed from a relationship.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">If we reverse the situation and take the example of a man much more in tune with his feminine energy \u2013 a soft, sensitive, nurturing guy \u2013 with a woman of similar feminine dominant energy, we once again see the relationship falling out of balance. Problems will arise as there is a distinct lack of much needed masculine dominant energy from both sides.\u00a0 There is no one partner displaying the strength and control aspect.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Yet if we have a man with predominantly feminine energy that is happy to let his female partner of masculine driven energy take the lead \u2013 this will work.\u00a0 The strong female is bringing the correct balance of masculine energy into the mix.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Remember both guys and girls that it\u2019s all about balance! If you\u2019re lucky enough to have your own energy already balanced with masculine\/feminine and have found a partner with the same quality then you\u2019ve got yourself a recipe for success and longevity. This works perfectly!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">So, whoever you meet whether that person is more masculine or feminine dominant , to have a healthy relationship you need to tap into the side of yourself which is the opposite to the main energy they are displaying. This will ensure that both partners \u2018meet in the middle\u2019 and all of the things needed to maintain a healthy relationship are brought to the table from both sides.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/http___signatures.mylivesignature.com_54492_206_3BCC1633431C16BE10319EF3DED9B04D.png\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"389\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/?attachment_id=389#main\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/http___signatures.mylivesignature.com_54492_206_3BCC1633431C16BE10319EF3DED9B04D.png?fit=180%2C123&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"180,123\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"http___signatures.mylivesignature.com_54492_206_3BCC1633431C16BE10319EF3DED9B04D\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/http___signatures.mylivesignature.com_54492_206_3BCC1633431C16BE10319EF3DED9B04D.png?fit=180%2C123&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/http___signatures.mylivesignature.com_54492_206_3BCC1633431C16BE10319EF3DED9B04D.png?fit=180%2C123&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-389\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/http___signatures.mylivesignature.com_54492_206_3BCC1633431C16BE10319EF3DED9B04D.png?resize=180%2C123\" alt=\"http___signatures.mylivesignature.com_54492_206_3BCC1633431C16BE10319EF3DED9B04D\" width=\"180\" height=\"123\" \/><\/a>\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/feminine-masculine.png\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"221\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/?attachment_id=221#main\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/feminine-masculine.png?fit=450%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"450,300\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"feminine masculine\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-medium-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/feminine-masculine.png?fit=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/feminine-masculine.png?fit=450%2C300&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"wp-image-221 size-full aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/feminine-masculine.png?resize=450%2C300\" alt=\"feminine masculine\" width=\"450\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/feminine-masculine.png?w=450&amp;ssl=1 450w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/feminine-masculine.png?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re a guy reading this I bet you\u2019re already dismissing the idea of being in tune with your \u2018feminine\u2019 side, right? And women reading this\u2026. You\u2019re wondering if you\u2019re perhaps too much in your masculine energy sometimes, right? Because let\u2019s face it, as women we are used to having to display both strength in the workplace and in the home \u2013 making us sometimes feel that we\u2019re left with no option but to be in control\u2026. Sound familiar? Yet here\u2019s the thing \u2013 In order to have happy and healthy relationships with others and ourselves, we all need to have a good balance of both feminine and masculine energy. &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/?p=220\" class=\"excerpt-link\">Read More<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":221,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-220","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.carriebattley.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/feminine-masculine.png?fit=450%2C300&ssl=1","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/s4JYMD-220","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=220"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":405,"href":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/220\/revisions\/405"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/221"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=220"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=220"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.carriebattley.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=220"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}